Live Events

LGBTQ+ speed dating, every evening at 21:30 Eastern Time (ET)

A room where nobody has to explain themselves first. Gay, lesbian, bi, trans, queer, everyone meets everyone, 3 minutes at a time.

  • 21:30 Eastern Time (ET) daily
  • 5 × 3 min
  • Any gender mix, from 10 people
  • Up to 20 people in the room

LGBTQ+ Dating ·

Built for a mixed room

Unlike the men & women event there is no fixed balance. Everyone is paired with everyone, so you can meet people of any gender in the same evening and decide for yourself what you are looking for.

Your profile does the introductions. Pronouns, orientation and what you want from dating are already visible, which saves the first three minutes of "so what are you into".

Small things that make a good chat

Mention a pronoun if it helpsIt is a short line and it saves a correction later.
Ask about their week, not their labelOrientation is on the profile. Ask about what they are into right now.
Say what you want earlyDating, friends, something casual. People appreciate clarity.
Take the pace you likeA pass on a like is fine. Nobody sees who passed.
Respect is the entry requirement. Messages that harass anyone are removed, and the account goes with them.

From seat to first message

  1. 1
    Join belowYou need an account. Tap a sign-in button and you are done.
  2. 2
    Show up on timeThe room opens 15 minutes before and starts as soon as 10 people are in.
  3. 3
    VoteAfter the last chat you pick who you would like to continue with.
  4. 4
    Say hello againMutual likes land in your matches with a private chat.

Good to know

Will people see my orientation?

Only what you put on your profile. Fill in what you are comfortable with and leave the rest empty.

What if the room has too few people?

We do not run a room for two. The event moves to the same time next day and your seat is kept.

Can I join both nightly events?

Yes. The men & women event runs earlier, so you can often join both on the same evening.

Is it only for people in the US?

No. It is the English language room, and members join from many countries.